Are you working in a job that some-what pays the bills, but makes your days drag on, leading you into laziness and depression? Working in a job that is not your dream job is costing you precious money. When you don’t fulfill your dreams, your unmotivated attitude spills over into every part of your life, including your job. Your work suffers. You turn in half-hearted work, you take extra sick days during the year because you just can’t seem to face your job, and your boss often notices and rides you harder at an attempt to threaten you into motivation. Perhaps the answer is to follow your dreams and, with preparation, quit your dead-end job.
We’ve all seen the beer commercial that says fulfill your dreams and you’ll never work a day in your life, this could not be more true. In order to fulfill our happiness and prosper, we must find our “soul purpose”. This is not to be mistaken with “sole purpose”. No person has only one purpose in life, we are not defined by one thing, but many; however, we all have a soul purpose. Things that are instilled in us that make us great and unique, and when properly fed, make us flourish.
Some of us are born knowing what we want in life, others flounder, sometimes for decades, and never really believe they “have a dream”. Be assured, we all have a dream. Perhaps somewhere along the way, yours was crushed by a criticism, a well-intentioned parent, or it just got lost along the way. So the question is, how do we discover our soul purpose? We go back to our childhood and begin a timeline of greatness in our lives.
Get a notebook and write down all the things that you loved to do as a child. Dance, sing, color, rebuild toys, no matter what it was, write it down. Now write down all of your accomplishments in your life that you can think of, each moment that you showed greatness and were proud of yourself. Perhaps it was a poem, or maybe when you caught the flyball in left field. No matter what they were, each time you felt pride, write it down.
This may not come to you right away, and that’s ok. Think on it; close your eyes and focus on your breathing and just picture your life on a time line. Each time you think of something, write it down. Next, write down all of your talents. Maybe you are a problem solver, a great mechanic, a singer, or a cook. Write down about fifteen or sixteen things you know you are good at. If you can’t think of any, think of what you have been complimented on during your life. Each time you can think your boss or a friend said “you’re so _____, good job!” Write it down. Eventually you will see a pattern in all of these things and four or five will stick out and come together. These are the things you should be doing with your life.
What do you do if your opportunity has passed? Perhaps your soul purpose was to be a dancer, but you are thirty-five years old and have no experience or professional training? This may happen, it doesn’t mean you have to stay in the dead-end job. Take a community dance class. Make contacts with the teacher and find out how you can help. Perhaps you can work in the studio, perhaps there is a community theatre in need of thirty-five year old dancers. There is always a way, you do not have to give up.
Also, look at the other things you have written down. You could also be good at clever titles or sayings. Maybe you helped your boss come up with a slogan and you were very proud of that. Continue with the dance class, but look into working as a copywriter or something in advertising. No one has to have one dream. Always think to yourself, when I grow up, I want to … and just keep at it, even if you’re fifty years old.
So now you have your dream and you’re ready to transition into it. For some, this will be easy. It will be as easy as applying for another job, for others it will require planning. A six month wages savings plan may be in order. The key to this is motivation. How quickly do you want that savings plan full? Would a second job, gaining experience and a little money, be helpful in attaining that goal? Working for someone in the field you want to go into will give you experience and tips on how to transition properly, even if you must volunteer to begin with. Even if that second job is delivering pizza and has nothing to do with advertisement, if it gets you closer to your goal, you should go for it.
There are always excuses for why you shouldn’t go into a field or why you shouldn’t quit your job. It is up to you to push yourself past these excuses. Affirm every day, My soul purpose is _________ and I will push forward until I fulfill that purpose. Never give up on your purpose. Once you begin to fulfill your dreams, you will find you can prosper and you are happier doing it. It may not be overnight; but if you persist, eventually, you will make up the difference and happily adjust your lifestyle to a successful one.